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Weekend sucked, was also good

Posted by goleafs87 on October 16, 2006

 So the sleepover on Saturday night went really well all the kids had a good night and it was nice to see out little friend again. However the weekend was less then peaceful for me when our three year old decided that she only wanted her mom to help her get into her pj’s on Saturday night, I tried to help her but it was met with screaming and yelling from the small one. I got her to her room and handed her pj’s to take to her mom and she threw them away while screaming at the top of her lungs this must have gone on for at least ten minutes before I got sick of hearing her scream and I just went to put them on her myself. Turns out that was a huge mistake as it only got the screaming louder and pissed off my SO to such a extent that she hardly talked to me for the rest of Saturday night which was fine as it gave us all some peace and quiet. Sunday came and went and the fighting between my SO and myself about the incident just went on and on and again we hardly spoke for the whole day and night, I spent last night on the couch too.. Finally today did we only start talking to each other with some sort of politeness in our voices but still that’s a whole weekend just wasted on a fucking stupid fight.

 Funny looking back on relationships and where I thought I would be by now in this one, I had hoped to be engaged at Christmas time but that plan is on hold now I think we just have too much shit we need to work out before we start to even think about marriage I mean who the fuck needs all that drama? One thing that is starting to wear on me about the past while is that my SO has two children by her first marriage, when she was 21 I believe she got her tubes tied just before she left her husband so as to prevent any mistakes. I knew that she had her tubes tied when I got together with her and it didn’t bother me at the time but now as time goes on I find myself wanting children of our own (Selfish much?)  One day we might have the money to get the operation to reverse the operation she had in the first place but that isn’t a sure thing now is it? I dunno why this is only starting to bother me now, I don’t know why that part of me is changing

 Anyway I think that’s about it for tonight, I’ll post more tomorrow since my SO is back to work tomorrow.. and hi to L;)

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One Response to “Weekend sucked, was also good”

  1. shewalksinbeauty said

    You have a good head about you. (Did you read my Birth & Death post?) The need to have your own children is a very natural feeling to have. Since I am no longer willing to risk pregnancy, my H had a vasectemy a year and a half ago. People say “adopt” but you know there is something about raising your own flesh and blood that is so right that it is actually ok with me that we have only one. It is abosolutely NOT selfish to want kids of your own, under any circumstances. If you each had children before you met that would be different, but you need to experience your own child being born at least once. God, I’m getting choked up.

    As for marriage? You have not provided the readers with any positives in your relationship yet. We were engaged right around my 21st birthday, so I am by no means brining up the age issue, as I do not believe it is an issue. If she is your best friend, if you want to be with her more than anyone else, if you are still able to get butterflies (even if seldom) when you think about her, then work it out. FInd out why she gets so upset about how you handle situations with the kids, or whatever the case may be. She seems to be kicking you pretty hard on a fairly regular basis.

    I will be here.

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